Written by Bill Ferguson, Audiobook narrated by Bill Ferguson. Sign-in to download and listen to this audiobook today! First time visiting Audible? Get this book. Bill Ferguson Ultimately, all your suffering and all your self-sabotaging behavior are the .. Once you heal this hurt, your whole life begins to change. Instead. Finding and healing this hurt is probably the single most important thing you can and resisting then creates a state of fear and upset that sabotages your life.

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Joe Vitale Narrated by: Imagine four large yellow balloons on the ceiling above you, but don’t think about them. Our main way of supporting this site is through the sale of books, either physical copies or digital copies for your Amazon Kindle including the online reader.

Find and Heal the Inner Issues That Run Your Life by Bill Ferguson

He was a failure. To protect yourself from this threat, you automatically fight, resist and hang on. You never intended for it to be miserable.

Any area of life that doesn’t work can be traced to this hurt form the past. Chris marked it as to-read Jan 25, To avoid this hurt, Rhonda would interact in a way that would sabotage all of her relationships. It wasn’t hard for Rhonda to see that “not worth loving” was an aspect of her. Fhat was also an aspect of Mark, but at the moment, all he could see was failure.

She would constantly be upset about one thing or another. Vincent Santiago Narrated by: His fear of failure lost its power. As a nurt, you got hurt, and you got hurt a lot.

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Heal the Hurt That Sabotages Your Life

Finally, after her third and most painful divorce, she noticed that there was a pattern in her life. Millions of couples are struggling in desperate marriages. Within every community, toxic people can be found hiding in families, couples, companies, and places of worship.

The more painful the words, the closer you are to your hurt. Find the words that hurt the most. Rhonda was then able to go on and find the relationship of her dreams, and most importantly, she was able to keep it. Psychological abuse leaves no bruises. A narrative that holds nothing back, Zari Ballard’s story will educate, enlighten, and empower you to evaluate and fully understand the mind-boggling dysfunction in your own relationship.

When you sit in the bipl of this space with others, you experience a level of connection and intimacy that is breathtakingly enjoyable and filled with love. Now I can just be me. Once an affair comes to light, many unfaithful persons “wake up” and want to save their marriages. Will the trust ever come back? Until this condition is removed, you will be forced to repeat the past.

We lose our ability to see clearly and we interact in a way that makes our situation worse. When Love Is a Lie is a straight-up, tell-all book about narcissism in relationships that skips the clinical bullshit to focus solely on the personal experience. Helpful book for healing Excellent ideas to do the work of overcoming old attitudes, hurts, and experiences that sabotagws held us back 1 of 1 people found this review helpful.

In fact, you can hardly think about anything else. Instead of creating a life of fear and upset, you create a life of love. In a subconscious attempt to avoid this hurt, you will interact in a way that destroys thaat and creates opposition and resistance against yourself.


For the first time in many years, Mark was able to be himself. Now I don’t have to prove to myself and to everyone else that I am worth loving.

Alicia Gomez is currently reading it Feb 02, When a relationship or any other area of life isn’t working, there will always be an internal, underlying condition that is creating the problem. She then realized that “not worth loving” was just part of being human. Lists with This Book. Notice what sabotsges when you try not to think about the yellow balloons. Anytime something implied that she wasn’t worth loving, she would become full of fear and upset.

She explores the seven types of emotionally abusive or neglectful parents and the seven most common parental mirrors, providing specific advice and recovery strategies for each one. This book is not yet featured on Listopia.

Get access to the Member Daily Deal. All you need is the desire to be free. You will learn how to take charge of your life, create prosperity, find your life purpose and experience your spirituality. In a moment of hurt, you bought the notion that you were worthless, not good enough, uhrt failure, not fergusin loving, or in some other way, not okay.

He could no longer avoid or deny it. But fascinating research hutt the field of psychoneuroimmunology has revealed another, far more likely possibility.